Some women also tend to bleed when they lose their virginity. Lubrication will make sex pleasurable and comfortable. I met the hottest guy there and went with him to the trampoline. The severe pain stopped as soon as he stopped the penetration attempt. Guest over a year ago Okay. I broke my own hymen, with pain and some blood, and was sore for a day or two. For a while there is a bit of poking around while you get used to the rhythm.
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Try not to worry too much about what other people do. I say "embarrassing" because I assumed being a virgin at that age was something wrong -- that I was unwanted, ugly, undesirable and therefore, unworthy as a woman, that all the times I had said no to sex because I didn't like the guy or didn't feel confortable with it had made me a prude and that I probably didn't deserve the sex. If you've been fingered or use tampons, I'd say you'll be fine. Questions seeking professional advice are inappropriate for this subreddit and will be removed. That will help you in controlling the depth, the angle, speed and movement. And now I'm a sex addict: I'd say, if 10 was pouring alcohol into an open wound, it would be a 5 stubbing your toe I've thought about this.
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We may consider being penetrated with a penis the only qualification, but what about hands and dildos? I didn't even realize 'til it was over that I never even got a kiss out of it. We were both teenagers, I was 15 and he was 19 when I lost my virginity. The only sad thing is that we weren't even friends. Go to mobile site.
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Description: Help us improve - how could this information be more helpful? Mods reserve the right to remove content or restrict users' posting privileges as necessary if it is deemed detrimental to the subreddit or to the experience of others. Not pain but, uncertainty and I asked what no man ever wants to hear: Why do you think it bleeds for so many girls their first?